I think the slant of that story holds more truth the closer you get to the city. 'City' people often grow up without the opportunity to ever learn how a vehicle handles. They haven't done stunts on a dirt road, owned a 'field car', etc. All they've done is drive on paved lines. Maybe it's from driving larger trucks, but I try to keep a safe stopping distance between me and the car ahead of me. When you start trying to swerve, you're risking multi-lane accidents, or in the case of an SUV, a roll-over. The vehicle isn't the problem, it's the driver who doesn't know how to safely use it.
Personally everyone I know that has an SUV, also owns a trailer that they pull with it. I dare say they might be able to do the same with a mini-van, but would hold up traffic on steep grades. Would definately want auxilary transaxle cooler, etc. For those I see acting like the article mentions, I dare say if it wasn't an SUV, they'd be driving something else and acting the same way.
For the mechanic in me, SUV's are awesome. Easy to work on. They have a hood. Some you can get under without jacking up. Because the wife has a minivan though, I prefer a truck because I need cargo, not passenger space.